Mercy and I snuck into the back of the auditorium. She giggled, and sat quickly on the last aisle. I breathed into my hand, and took a whiff. Tequila had a distinct odor, and I was worried those around me would pick up on it. Mercy stuck me with her elbow, and giggled again. Mrs. Howell turned from three aisles up and frowned. We were in our 30’s, and still being shushed by our former 4th grade teacher. Mercy stuck her tongue out at Howell, giggled more while hiccupping in the process.
“Mercy, stop it!” I whispered loudly. “You’re gonna get us kicked out.”
“So what if I do,” she shrugged. “I don’t care that your sister is graduatin’ high school.”
“Hey. This is important. To me. Stop it.”
“Yeah, so,” was her response. Mercy wasn’t big on education. Not her particular mode of life. Make some money today, and pay for tonight’s party. She believed that tomorrow would take care of itself. So far, she had gotten away with it.
“You can’t be a waitress all of your life, Mercy.” We argued about this regularly. I was trying to move up, and I wanted her to go with me.
“Can too. I make more money than you do. As you know,” Mercy took her purse up from her lap and began scrounging through for lipstick. I just shook my head and nodded fiercely toward the front. We had made it in time to hear the Valedictorian. My sister. The value of graduating and the honor of the senior class was once again a leading reason as subject matter for the speakers, and this included Margareet. I had heard her practicing the speech, and knew she was trying to make it different. Not just another smart kid telling the audience how they were going to change the world. But how many things can be said about another senior class embarking on the next leg of their life, and having no understanding of what that can possibly mean. Change the world. Discover the cure to the common cold. Hell, just try to pay your own bills. That was hard enough. How difficult it had to be to make the speech sound original yet play to the audience. Always remember your audience. I looked around. Maybe she ought to talk about the virtues of fast food instead.
“Hey!” Mercy poked me again with her elbow. “Look over yonder.” She nodded her head in the direction to her left. I frowned at her, and looked in the direction.
“What?” I knew better than to ask her to come to a high school event. She always turned into the head cheerleader she had been in our junior and senior years. My god, if I had to hear one more time about what a great accomplishment it had been for her to be head of the squad in her junior year. Some people never get past high school. Mercy loved to talk about how much she had hated it, but she loved to talk about it.
“There. Look. God, you’re blind,” she pointed in a vague left direction. At that point, I saw who she was looking at. David Stevens turned as I leaned into look. I sat up straight, almost bringing a hitch to my side.
“Shit, Mercy.” I shook my head and frowned deeper. She giggled again.
“You’re still horny for him.” I glared at her.
“I never was. Do you know why we are here?” I trained my eyes toward the stage, attempting to force her into looking in the direction which I was, although all I could truly see was one half of the grey teased bob in front of me. I didn’t let that deter my attempt to control Mercy’s buzzed behavior. Whose idea was it to stop for a few drinks and why had I agreed to it? There was no figuring out human behavior when I couldn’t even figure out my own.
“Yes, ma’am. I do. Your precious Margareet is getting herself out of high school so she can go to college at Clemson, graduate as a complete prick, and take over the South Carolina governing system. Am I close?” I chose not to respond, continuing my determined gaze at the stage. She shook her head, smiling sadly. “She’s such a geek. And she could be so hot.”
“No one says geek anymore, Merc. People are proud to be geeks now. Hell, you married one.” She hated to be reminded that she had married the high school nerd, even if he had provided her a good living while he endured her insults. Mercy would never get beyond a pretty face, which meant she was likely destined to be a waitress for the rest of her life. Eugene had not been a pretty face. He had been a great brain, and my understanding was that he was burning it up in the new Google facility close to Myrtle Beach. But that hadn’t been Mercy’s scene. She wanted partying, hot muscles, and a man who had to stray. At least that was what she had ended up with. Many times over.
Finally, she pulled out a nail file, and sat there filing while shaping her already perfectly shaped fingernails. Mrs. Howell glared backwards in her direction once more, and we were finally still, listening for the same words delivered at high school graduations all over the country. Onward and upward. Sometimes just onward was hard enough.
We had walked this stage eleven years earlier. Mercy and I had been best friends since we were in the 4th grade, and our choices afterwards had been similar. We each married high school boyfriends one year after graduation. Her marriage had lasted about 18 months, mine three and a half years. Although we had lost contact during these brief commitments, we had found each other again shortly after mine had ended. Johnnie, my ex, had never been a fan of Mercy’s, believing her to be a bad influence on me. Go figure.
We now shared a house together, which meant that I was doing a lot of paying and cleaning. I reminded her monthly that I was not Eugene, and not impressed with the firmness of her tits. One half of everything was her responsibility. It was her grandfather’s house, which he normally rented to young vigorous couples, but Mercy was the apple of his eye, and we had gotten it for a steal. $300.00 a month. I think he usually got double that, but maybe it was worth it to him. I felt guilty about using him in this manner, but Mercy said it just prevented him from handing over money that he normally gave her. I doubted if that was true.
Mercy added the spice and excitement to my life that helped me to feel alive, but she drove me nuts at the same time. Once again, I knew better than to ask her to come to something like this. She was jealous of my relationship with Margareet, my younger sister who had come along as a great surprise to my mama. Considering Mama wasn’t married nor in a relationship. Growing up in a small southern town provided us with eccentric people who other people loved to talk about, my mother being one of them. In fact, some southerners only live to talk about people. All you have to do is go to a local beauty salon to find that out. One like my Aunt Sue’s. Really quite interesting. Mam claimed that Margareet was a virgin birth. Yeah, we knew better. But no one had ever seen her with a man. Not since my daddy had hit the road and that was when I was ten years old. She didn’t date. No dinners with men, not to the movies, not in our house where I lived. I would have seen or heard something. I didn’t think she had the ability to hypnotize me. I could be wrong.
Her pregnancy was a complete mystery, and mama’s First Baptist Church had eventually accepted it. Of course, that was after she was called before the deacons and put on the hot coals of sexual accusation. You need to know my mama. I don’t think those deacons ever wanted to talk to her again about her life, nor theirs. If there was anything my mama knew well, it was just exactly what was happening in everyone else’s life in Pickland, South Carolina. Whatever she said happened must have happened. She was visited by a spirit, Margareet looked just like she did so it must be virgin, or God had simply meant for her to have this brilliant daughter who would bring our family great glory. Or else one of those deacons was a proud papa to our Margareet, which was always my suspicion. She’s a trip, my mama. There’s nothing like seeing a group of Baptist women come together over the supposed sins of one of them, and circle the wagons like nobody’s business. And that’s what they said it was – nobody’s business. My mama wasn’t asking for a handout, she wasn’t drinking or smoking, and she was in the church door the minute it was unlocked. In fact, she was in charge of the extra set of keys in case of fire or other bad things. We lived one block from the volunteer fire department, and they knew that anytime they suspected there might be shenanigans going on at the First Baptist Church, they could come right to her and get in. Maybe my mama had shenanigan’s right there in The First Baptist Church. My mama’s a trip. We don’t get along most of the time, but I know she’s my mama.
Mercy leaned her head on my shoulder, and pretended to sleep. I pushed her away in time to see the 126 graduates stand up, and throw their caps in the air. Rising slightly, I could see mama and her sister two rows behind the graduates, and I knew she was beaming from one ear to the other. Margareet was our hope for the future.
“Can we go now?” she moaned in my direction.
“We can go in a minute. We gotta go to Denny’s for the celebration.”
“What? Denny’s? Really?” She drug “really” out a long time. When Mercy wanted to emphasize an idea, she simply dragged the word out for a long time. It beat having to improve her vocabulary.
“I told you this, Mercy. Just come on.” We stood, and at the same time I saw David looking in my direction. He smiled, and I grimaced back in return. The older women in our congregation would be whispering tomorrow that David and I were finally getting together. Not me. Not no way, no how. My life had been dictated throughout elementary school as to who could be my friends and who could not, and, through high school, it had been no different. Once I was divorced, I was finally accepted as tainted goods, which satisfied me to no end. No more pushing to marry the quarterback, or the lead trumpeter, although the band was definitely not in the same league as the football team. I was free to be the sinner I had become, and I intended to enjoy it. I was supposed to marry David. Destined in fact. All I could see was that was a dead end to staying right here in Pickland, South Carolina, and that wasn’t happening to me. Even though I was at the spinster old age of thirty-one without a prospect in sight for a husband, I was just fine with that. I didn’t want kids to pull me backwards. God knew I had done my share of dirty diaper changing and potty training when my aunt moved in with her four kids. Being a mother wasn’t anywhere in my near future, and I was gonna make sure of that. No dating allowed. No David for me.
I was attending the local community college, and had five semesters under my belt. I wasn’t quite sure what I was going to do with my education, but I knew it didn’t include selling t-shirts for the local screen printer for the rest of my life. And even though I was between husbands and David was between wives, I didn’t have any intention of becoming step-monster to his two young children. Even if they did still mostly reside with the homecoming queen he had divorced. Nope, not me.
I made a quick move to head out. Pulling Mercy by her arm, I headed to the right, which meant getting past the thirty or so sitting in the aisle. She hissed at me, which meant she wanted to go the other way – just step out on the aisle, but that way spelled disaster for me. The David way. I didn’t look in her direction, and kept pulling. Those still sitting grumbled at our leaning on their fat knees and pushing our over their laps on our way quickly out.
“Where you going in such a hurry, sister?” I kept my eyes down, kept smiling, and apologizing. I glimpsed more than one obese man ogling Mercy’s tight jeans. God, would this world ever change? I kept pulling. I felt like all I did in my life was push and pull. Push myself to work, go to school, do homework, keep our house up, and try to live my life without stepping on other people’s toes. Damn, I just stepped on somebody’s toes. Push and pull. Pull those around me to keep them going and keep them working. I believed that the lazy folks around me didn’t deal with life like I did. Surely there was an easier way to being successful, but I didn’t know what that path might be. When we finally got to the side aisle, I saw Margareet waving from the end of it, motioning me towards her, where she stood next to the stage. I waved back, and plastered a smile on my face. Right at that moment, I could see into the edge of her life. I could see the endless options that lay ahead for her, the nights of studying with friends in college, the feeling of leaves falling on Clemson during her first semester, the opportunities of discussion about great and wonderful things. Tears sprang quickly to my eyes, and I blinked hard. I had made my choices. This was Margareet’s night. I would wake up tomorrow and go to work, and then to the library in the evening to do homework for my Monday night class. Tonight I would not feel sorry for myself, and I wouldn’t allow my own fears to interrupt Margareet’s joy. I waved, and this time my smile was real.
“Mercy, let’s go celebrate with Margareet.”
Day 2 writing, November 3, 2010
“I’m gonna write a book.” I sat there after offering this explosive statement. Sounds simple enough, but I knew what I was unleashing. The tiger would wake up and begin pawing the cage. And I was the one with the trumpet.
“Shee-it.” Mercy kept peering at her teeth, admiring the perfect whiteness that almost blinded her in the mirror. Occasionally she would look closely at her pore-less skin, and dab at it with some homemade solution she was currently using. Probably peroxide based.
“You gonna do what?” My aunt Lily looked up from her Glamour magazine and stared at me. Lily had been a beauty once as well, but she now embraced her age with tent like dresses to hide her ever-growing girth. She kept her beauty queen pictures close by so that she could delude herself into believing she was that same gorgeous twenty year old.
“What did you say, girl?” My mama’s eyes were boring into me like nobody’s business. I didn’t even have to look up to know that her eyes had that deadly glare which, in my childhood, had immediately preceded the whack on the head I would shortly receive. She didn’t hit me anymore, but her glares were almost as bad, penetrating and burning as she stared towards my head.
“I’m gonna write a book.” Mercy made her same “shee-at” comment, and Lily looked back down at her magazine.
“I could write a book. Now that would be innerestin’,” Lily wasn’t one to spend too much time talking to anyone else about their dreams and desires. The world revolved around her, as she would quickly tell you.
“You can’t write a book.” This was one of mama’s comments that closed the door on subjects. Except now I was thirty-one and she couldn’t control my actions quite like she had done when I was eight.
“I am. I’m going to write a book,” this time, I actually emphasized the ending of my words. The hard “g” sound was a new one for me, and I knew that eventually someone in my family would say something rude about it. This was a result of my recent English 101 class at Tri-County Tech, and I had found that making that “guh” sound at the end of the words felt real good. Felt like I was finally loosening myself from the chains of my upbringing. There was nothing like talking correctly and with emphasis on sounds that irritated southerners around me. Nothing like it.
“Really.” Mama grunted. “Hmph. What you gonna write about. Your poor upbringin? Your mama’s lack of education? Your daddy who run off early and didn’t help me? Gonna be one of those “confess my sins to the world” Dr. Phil kinda thing?” She wasn’t looking at me now, which could mean she was either too mad or too scared to let me see her eyes.
“I don’t know exactly,” I now dodged, wondering why the hell I had brought this anyway. Sometimes my plans backfired and burned me the most. “I just know I can write.” Lily and mama looked at each other and grinned. “Okay, forget I said anything. I will do it on my own. And if I make a bunch of money, don’t come to me asking for your share. This is like the Little Red Hen, and you won’t be getting anything that you don’t deserve.” Lily’s smile changed suddenly. She wasn’t one to turn down a handout, even if it hadn’t even been made yet.
“Oh, come on, Janie. You don’t have to be like that. You know that you wanna share with your poor family members. Surely you do. Why, I can help you. Instead of writing my own book, I’ll help you. I can cook while you write.” It was my turn to laugh. The idea of Lily sitting and writing her own book was too strange to contemplate. She had never kept a job for more than a few months at a time, claiming no one ever used her intellect and talent well enough to keep her there. Her intellect and talent combined were frightening to consider, except for the fact that she was a great cook. Give Lily four ingredients, and she could whip up a gourmet meal like nobody’s business. Might be a good deal for me.
“What you gonna write about, girl?” Now mama wasn’t telling me my life, she was dangerously curious, but I knew mostly because she wanted to know if the book would reflect badly on her. Of course it would, but I wasn’t going to tell her that yet.
“I’ve started it. My English professor said the beginning was good. And he’s published three books. So.” I ended the sentence with a weak word. I knew the English professor would not be impressed with that part. Now I had to sit out the words that my mama would throw in my direction, and wonder for the 87th billionth killionth time if I really was a masochist.
Mama dodged a direct lob by directing her attention to Lily. Her defense was going to be an aggressive offense. I didn’t date the quarterback for nothing.
“What you got on your agenda for this afternoon, Lily?” Sugar wouldn’t have melt in her mouth right now.
“Well, let me see. I was thinking I would put up some good grape jelly. Billy brought home a bunch of grapes last night, and I know we ain’t gonna eat twenty pounds of grapes. So that’s what I was thinking about doin.” Lily kept her eyes fixed on her magazine and didn’t look up at either one of us. She was familiar with this game, as she played it a lot with her own kids. Don’t acknowledge dreams of changing, or growing, and they’ll stay right there under your thumb. Your kids will then recreate the life that you have led, with the same money woes, the same slightly-above-minimum-wage jobs, the same griping and complaining about every political office holder, and then you will feel completely justified in how you lived cause your kids picked the same road. No reason to have big dreams or big ideas. In fact if you do, we will either make fun of you or completely ignore you. Either could be equally effective and devastating. I had seen enough fat kids hanging around with their fatter parents to understand this dilemma.
“Okay, you don’t want to know anything about my book,” I directed the statement to the air right in front of my face seeing as no one was willing to ask or show interest. “You never want to know anything about my education, or why I am trying to improve myself by going to school and juggling a fifty-hour-a week- job, for which I get paid for forty, and practically paying for this household myself because Mercy never has any money. Don’t ask anything, don’t expect anything,” I felt my blood pressure rise. This was likely not the way to get them to be on my side. It was equally likely not to work to get them to show interest. It in fact would most probably piss them off more than the fact that I was trying to grow. Don’t talk about it and it will surely go away. I stood up, preparing to leave. And this was my damn house.
“Yeah, I knew I was gonna get dragged into this. I’ve got money for you, Janie. My god, why don’t you embarrass me in front of the whole town and not just the two most important women in your family?” Mercy glared at me above her makeup mirror. Typical. Mercy could brown nose with the best of them.
“Yeah, right, Mercy. Nobody ever expects you to be late with your part of the rent. These two have never heard that.” She rolled her eyes at my sarcasm, and reached for her pocketbook. Taking out a wad of money, she tossed it in my direction.
“There’s 300 bucks. I was planning on surprising you with new towels and shit. But you just take it.”
“Do me a favor, Mercy. Don’t surprise me with anything. Just take care of your part of the bills.” She stuck her tongue out at me, and I stuck mine back. Mama laughed.
“You girls sound so grownup. Maybe you ought to just go back to your mamas’ houses.” She grinned at me. Like that was gonna happen. Mama just wanted my money.
“You know, Janie, I want to talk to you about your schooling. But sometimes you get so damn eager about it. Makes it hard for the rest of us to want to bring it up. Once that door is open…ya just cain’t shut it. Besides, this is your education. For you to do the learnin’ and the work, and the readin’. Cain’t you just keep it there and be happy?” Mama got out of her chair, and stretched her back. Like an old feline, she pretended that she was getting on in years, but underneath that head of grey hair lay a spry brain that was itching to prove itself smarter and quicker than the others around her. Nobody was gonna get mama’s goat. I knew that my attending school was some kind of threat to her, but I couldn’t get it in my head that her fear meant I couldn’t’ talk about what had become the most important thing in my life. I couldn’t tell her, nor Aunt Lily, nor even Mercy. They thought this was just something I needed to get out of my system. For god’s sake, mama couldn’t understand why I hadn’t stuck with hair-styling school that I had begun in my marriage. That was surely the most advanced I could hope to be. And they made good money. Good money. I had never known exactly what good money was. Enough to pay your bills? To get your husband out of jail once or twice a year? To pay for your kid’s rehab? Why was she so scared? Why couldn’t she be a fan instead of a drag on my enthusiasm?
All I knew was that as I tackled different subjects, I felt like windows of knowledge and awareness were being opened in my brain. And flowers were sprouting. Every time I learned a new skill, or read about something I had known absolutely nothing about, I could feel that seed of wonder being planted. There was so much to know, so much to study, so many books to read. I knew I would not live long enough to enjoy everything that I wanted to know, and it drove me nuts that the people closest to me would not share this with me. It never occurred to me that for them to enjoy may have taken some of the joy out of it for me. Having insight into yourself can be quite revealing.
I didn’t know it then, but the changes that were taking place inside of me would eventually create the need for me to reach out to others, and neglect or even give up the relationships on which I had depended for my first thirty years. What happens to a person when she realizes she has outgrown most of the people in her circle? For one thing, she can choose to go backwards. She can choose, like the little fat kid, to embrace her parents’ unhealthy choices just so they will continue to love her. She can choose to go back to the bars and high school football games that peppered her youth and absorbed the people with whom she grew up. Or she can continue the path of growth. The path to self-realization. The path to self-discovery. The path to loneliness. What do I most want in the world? Growth or people? Education or connection? Do I really have to choose between the two?
What lousy choices.
Day 3 – November 4, 2010
Class had been scary at first. I was old. I knew I was old, but when I walked into the first math class I took at Tri County Tech, I found that I was among the youngest in the crowd. The recession had knocked many people out of jobs, and the need to improve skills was ageless. There was a 73-year-old man there learning algebra. I should not use the word “learning”. He did his best. I was stunned at the people who were trying to improve themselves. Not like my Grandpa Sorrels. He wasn’t about to start getting educated after he had built his pride on working in the mills all his life. By god, the government owed him that social security check, and there warn’t nobody gonna tell him different. He had learnt everything he ever needed right there at the First Baptist Church of Liberty, and that was that. I shook my head to get my grandpa out of it. It always amazed me how quickly my family could climb into my thoughts and just take over from there.
Chapter two
I was in the beginning of my 6th semester. I suppose if I had been able to do it the way Margareet was doing it that would be the beginning of my junior year. Provided two semesters is one year. I worked hard not to think of that too much. That didn’t make it so, though. Margareet was going to Clemson with her way paid. She had academic scholarships and grants, and money from The First Baptist Church. She was doing it the right way, and I was doing it my way. Don’t look backwards, Janie. The only way you are headed is straight in front of you. I could hear my Grandma Beam saying that to me. My daddy’s parents had always been a part of my life, even if he had taken the low road out of our lives. She was a feisty eighty-something grandma with a survivor’s spirit that didn’t exist in my mama’s family. The worst words I would get from my mama was saying I was just like Granny Beam. I didn’t even call her that. Just my mama’s words. Somehow, she felt that Granny Beam had been responsible for her lousy husband’s disappearance. Perhaps she was right. My mama is not easy to live with.
For me, the sixth semester meant that I was only on my sophomore year. Maybe. I was sometimes afraid to count the credits, because for my first four, I didn’t take it seriously, and I tried to take classes I might like just so I would stay in school. When I first started, I didn’t tell anybody. That would have been too much of a commitment. I took Art Appreciation in the first semester, World Religion in the second. I then thought that I would probably head in the accounting direction, because being in the business world made sense to me. That was where I could make the big bucks, but I forgot that I hate and refuse to balance my own checkbook. Credits and debits were the most damned confusing ideas I had ever heard, and after struggling through the next four classes of that crap, I decided it wasn’t for me.
Of course when that happened, that meant I had lost two years. My advisor didn’t tell me that, but I could see it in her face. Then again, her face rarely changed, and perhaps what I was reading was her disappointment in her own life. Mrs. Childress had been an English teacher for sixteen years, had two children in college themselves, and her passion, if she ever had any, was long gone. For her life, her children, and her husband. Her office was a fake cheery bright blue, a color that could seep into your bones and your mind while you waited for her to finish emails and get off the phone. It was almost blinding. I was tempted to wear sunglasses, but figured she would think I was some kind of showoff if I did. Her clothes said she was a fan of the ninety’s and her hairdo seconded it. When I had appointments with her, she would look up at me with a kind of surprise and despair as I knocked on her doorframe. She would then push aside the papers she was painting in red ink, and ask me to sit down. Each semester, and sometimes twice, she would ask me my name. The fact that she couldn’t remember one student’s name was not an ego trip for me. I didn’t believe I was anything special to her. It was just that her first name was also Janie, and so was her big-haired daughter who stared out from her junior class picture in an orange frame. Looks to me like that might stick, but I guess it was too much to expect.
After those two years of part-time classes, I realized that what I really wanted was to go to Clemson. I wanted a BA in arts, and I had no idea what I would do with it. Couldn’t make much money, and since I never intended on marrying again, I did have to keep that in front of me. But I made the decision one night while slurping and boo-hooing over the Clemson catalog. I would do this. I had no idea how, or why, or when, but I decided that shit simply didn’t matter. I would do what I had to if it meant prostituting my body. That’s what my mama said when she was determined that I would go to dance classes or learn to play the piano. I want this for my girl if’n I have to prostitute my body. I can’t dern near give it away, but by god, I’ll get the money. There it was. I opened a crack in my brain, and now my mama climbed in. Time to go to class.
I pulled into the campus parking lot, and cruised for several minutes, looking for the best parking spot. Hell, looking for any parking spot. I finally spotted smoke from an old pickup truck, and slowed to see if he was pulling out. He was, and as he backed, I watched him staring at his phone and heard the crunch when he touched the fender of the car across from his rear end. He jerked to a stop, threw it in first, and lurched in my direction. As he passed me, he grinned, and put his finger to his lips. Who was I gonna tell?
I pulled in the spot, grabbed my books, turned off the engine, and stepped out. This was a world that I had come to wallow in with great gusto. I loved it here. The comforting feeling of school as it surrounded me continued to surprise me, but now it was finally a familiar home for me, and I headed toward the side door of Building 1.
As I entered the classroom, I saw that Dr. Standridge was already there. He was my idol. A professor in his early 60’s, he had a head full of silver hair, and a sparkle for the English language that made me want to giggle. Me. I had taken his comments and corrections as meaning I was meant to be a writer in the biggest way, and I did everything I could in his class to win his approval. He smiled without looking up, an expression which I knew he gave to every student. Still, I threw me slightly off-center to feel the warmth of his look, and I smiled widely back.
The room was filled with mostly non-traditionals – meaning old – and they each had their books piled on their tables. We had only two traditional students and they were absent as often as they were there. I particularly enjoyed reading each other’s writing, and learning about the lives, which these people had lived, while now trying to improve their lot and get ahead in their world. I wasn’t quite sure how struggling through an algebra class would move them forward, but I felt great respect for their desire to find a path that would work. I was doing exactly the same thing.
The person closest to my age was Wanda, a flamboyant black woman who was trying to escape the waitressing route. So far she had made it from Waffle House to Applebee’s, but that was a huge step up for her. She had to learn to write before she could do that. In the stories that Wanda wrote for this class, she talked about being at the Waffle house at the age of 16, and not being able to write the orders. Didn’t hurt her real badly because she got to yell out the orders to the cook, and she had to go home every night and copy exactly what the menu said – over and over and over. When the customers told her what they wanted, she would have them point to the picture, and then copy exactly what she remembered. She didn’t know what it meant at first. The letters were just pictures to her. But gradually, “smothered, covered, chunked, diced, peppered, capped, topped, and country” became her formative writing words. Hell, any word’s a good word to learn to write with. She won an award once for her perfect penmanship in writing those orders. If they had compared her writings then to her orders three years earlier, they might not have been so impressed. The human spirit continues to amaze me. Her ability to get that Waffle House job is something which I cannot get my mind around. She went in there, with a hungry houseful of brothers and sisters waiting to hear about her interview, and convinced the manager that she was the perfect Waffle House waitress. She wasn’t old enough, she couldn’t write, had to find a way to work every single day of the four and one half years she worked there, and nobody ever knew any of this. She kept her own secrets, did the job, didn’t hassle the other women who were white and highly jealous of her ebony beauty, made enough tips to pay for food for her two sisters and three younger brothers, and kept her nose to the grindstone until she could move up in the world. To Applebees.
I don’t know about this American Dream thing. In our classes, we talk a lot about our lives too. That’s because we are in class for three hours and just doing class room stuff can’t get frightfully boring, but mostly for the teacher. This is my third class with Wanda. I am astonished at her willingness to work. She might leave Applebee’s and get here within 20 minutes, uniform and all, smelling of the kitchen, sometimes spilled booze, and looking like a queen. How can you always look like a queen in the midst of her life? I have never heard her complain about her life, but I’ve heard her complain plenty about men and politics.
“That damn low-life August. I swear. My mama lets him back in our house, and he eats everything that I have bought.” August was her stepfather, father of at least three of Wanda’s siblings. He had come and gone in the past dozen or so years, and Wanda’s crack addicted mama just let him in. “When I’m done with this degree, I’m moving far far away. If I have to take Waterloo with me, then I’ll just do it.” Waterloo was Wanda’s youngest sister, a frail thin girl of 12. She was the only child in the family who wasn’t healthy. Most of the rest of them could stand to lose a few stones, but Waterloo was Wanda’s special project. She was convinced that with her influence, she could help your youngest sister to a life of success in whatever Waterloo wanted to do. I was afraid that she was really trying to recreate her own life, and handing Waterloo the kind of loving attention she wished she had got. That’s not a bad thing, don’t get me wrong. But Waterloo ain’t Wanda.
Wanda was a different sort, not one given to taking a handout of any kind. Better than any that I had seen come outta West Greenville, whites, blacks, or latinos. I admired her intensely, and she scared me to death. White women in the south are taught to fear strong black women, even if most of our ancestors were raised by strong black women. I was attempting to challenge that fear by getting to know Wanda, but I surely wasn’t there yet. Still, having her in class was a trip and she always offered a viewpoint that no one else could see. Her vision took her above, and sometimes below, the Blue Ridge Mountains that sat languidly outside our windows. She was an eagle, who had transformed herself from the world of groundhogs, and it was something to see her learn to use her wings.
“Who wants to read first?” Dr. Standridge rarely took roll. You wanna education, you show up. He’ll help you once you get in the door. But he suffers no fools, as he likes to say. He also doesn’t suffer bad grammar, too many commas, incomplete sentences, and missed deadlines. I found that out during my first class of the semester. He looked around at the classroom. “This wasn’t a difficult assignment. Pick someone in your life, turn them into fiction, and write about them. How many of you think this can be done?” A wry look passed over his face, and I thought he was making fun of us. I glanced at my paper, and thought about the people there. Perhaps I wasn’t the writer I thought I was. Self-doubt is like helium. Once it finds its way into your brain, it begins to fill every opening. Make you light-headed with second thoughts. Seep into your neck, and force the veins there to expand to the point that your face gets red, and you know if you open your mouth, something horrible like “fuck this class” might escape. Even worse. You might say something about the chili stain on the front of your instructor’s shirt. Did he think we couldn’t see him? Then you feel yourself wondering what the hell is going on, why are you doing this to yourself, and can’t you see that this is impossible? I know war is hell. Self-doubt must be in the downline somewhere. I had such envy for people who knew themselves, knew what they were capable of, took the bull by the horns and created based on those beliefs. Damn, this was worse than my family creeping into my head.
Wanda’s hand shot up. Standridge looked at her a moment. “Okay, Wanda, this oughta be good. Give it to us. She sat up higher in her seat. “Why don’t you come on up to the front, Wanda. That way everyone can see and hear equally.” All fifteen of us who could hear Wanda’s every move in her seat. He wanted to not only teach us better writing skills, he was after improving our speaking abilities. I sunk lower in my seat. I hated being in front where people would analyze my every word and movement. But this didn’t slow Wanda down. She stood up, straightened her spine and stomped up to the front. Smiling at him, she took a breath.
“Wait.” Standridge held his hand up. I heard her deep breathe escape her mouth, as she visibly deflated slightly. “I would like to remind you that this essay – this very short one and a half page essay is not to be about a real event in your life. You were supposed to take a “real person” and put them in a situation that you would not expect. Not for them. Real person, imagined scene.” He stopped and gazed at Wanda. I could see that there was something lying beneath his meaning, but I couldn’t quite grasp what it was. I felt my respect for Dr. Standridge slip a notch. This appeared to be some kinda game playing with all of us but then maybe I should give him the benefit of the doubt. Maybe it wasn’t quite the trap that it appeared he was creating.
“Ok. Got it, sir. Can I read now?” Wanda was getting tickly in her shoes and wanted this over with.
“Go ahead.”
Wanda began. “August was a fine man. The kind of man any woman would want to call her own. He stood tall with ingelligence and self confidence. He exuded an aura of love and acceptance.” Wanda had created exactly the man she would want her mama to be with. In the story, he bought Christmas gifts, came home with flowers and candy, and made her mama feel like a queen. Feeling like a queen was what we had all been taught that every woman wants when she grows up. She finished her reading, and nodded to Standridge. Striding to her seat, she turned and eased herself down, the look on her face clearly saying she thought she had done a great job.
Standridge looked around the class. He held his hands out as if inviting comments. No one said a word. We were beginning to learn how this worked, and opening ourselves criticism by our peers felt strange. “Okay, this is how this works. You listen, and critique. That means you offer positive criticism. You tell Wanda what you liked about her story, and how you thought it could improve. That’s what we will do with each story – peer critique.” He, of course, looked in my direction. “Ms. Bulick, are you willing to go first?” I saw him reach for his grading book, and I gulped. I wasn’t supposed to feel this way at thirty-one. I felt my adam’s apple jump.
“I admire Wanda’s writing.” I stopped there.
“More,” was all he said.
“Ummm,” I glanced at her. She sat there with her head down, scribbling on her paper.
“Ummm, I know the character in her story, so that makes it a little harder for me to criticize it.”
“Not criticize, critique. And you don’t know the character, Ms. Bulick, because this is a fictional character. Is that right, Ms. Lords?” Wanda nodded.
“Okay. I don’t know how this really works. Ya know, here in the south we have a hard time criticizing people right to their face,” I paused. “Critiquing people, I mean. So I’ll give it a shot. I didn’t take notes, I was just listening to the reading.” I looked down and around as I frantically searched for something I could say that wouldn’t piss Wanda off royally. “Stories is what life is made of. I think you said that, Dr. Standridge.” He nodded. “And there are only so many kinds of stories. Although everyone’s story is different. I think that Wanda created a man that she would like to know. I don’t think there was any particular ‘event’ in her story. Just a man who reminds me a little of Santa Claus, he is so good. And I guess that says a lot more about Wanda than it really does the story.” I stopped, and stared at the whiteboard in the front of the room. “That’s all.”
“Well, Ms. Bulick, you have certainly hit on a central tenet of writing fiction. In general, it says much more about the writer than it does the story. But we don’t usually get into that kind of ‘writer analysis’. In this class it will be tough enough to learn to improve our writing. So, we’ll go with that, and see how we can make each of you write just a touch better than you could when you walked in this door.” I was off the hook. He was moving forward with his teaching and when I looked at Wanda, she was smiling at me. I surely wasn’t quite sure what had just happened but I managed to pull it off without offending anyone else. Maybe I wasn’t destined to be just like my mama after all.
Chapter Three
I woke up to the alarm ringing irritatingly in my head. Glancing at the clock, I could see that I was already late. Damn alarm. I didn’t hear it anymore, like the noise was just part of the background of my life. I resolved once again to buy a new clock, rose wearily from the bed, and looked around. I wasn’t a grumpy morning person, just an incoherent one. Even my eyesight was foggy in the morning. I was too young so I thought to be experiencing myopia (a word my mama threw around regularly – she had been told that at an eye checkup five years ago, and we were still forced to hear regularly about her dreaded disease, myopia).
I headed toward our only bathroom, to hear Mercy humming while she soaked. She was never up this early in the morning. Waitressing required late nights, and this was too out of character for me to even speak at first. I stood there contemplating what this would mean for my day if she was already in the bathroom.
“Merc,” I knocked loudly. No response. I leaned in to the door to listen directly with my ear. I realized that the humming was not feminine, and indeed was not Mercy.
“Hey,” I knocked a little more loudly. The water stopped running, and I heard a cough.
“Yeah,” the response from behind the door was distinctly male.
“Who the hell is in there?” I got a little louder and stepped back from the door. For some reason, I felt naked, even though I was in boxer shorts and a tshirt. I took another step back and glanced to my left toward Mercy’s room. I could see a leg thrown over the bedspread, which meant that someone – probably her – was still in the room. I walked rapidly inside it, and saw her blonde hair sprawled all over her face and hanging off of the bed. One boob peered out over the top of the bedspread. I stepped to the side, jerked the spread up to cover her more appropriately, and yelled in her face.
“Mercy!” Her eyes popped open and she responded with a small yell.
“What the hell…Janie, what are you doing?” She demanded, and sat up, revealing even more than I had been protecting.
“Yeah, Merc, what the hell? Who is in the bathroom?” I was getting later and madder, and some strange man was in our bathroom.
“This is not what we agreed on,” I pointed my finger at her and shook it. She began to giggle a little, and pulled the covers up. Not like we hadn’t seen each other naked our whole lives, but I was totally confused as to who was in the bathroom. We weren’t supposed to bring home strange males without the approval of each other. That had been the rule from the beginning. Mercy had a hell of a reputation, and I didn’t want to get stabbed in the middle of the night by some strange drunken customer who she had taken a fancy to.
“I met someone, Janie,” she smiled at me with her best forgive-me-and-let-me-get-away-with-anything look. I had seen it too many times.
“No, no, no. This is not what we agreed on. Fuck. Look at the time! I’ve got thirty-two minutes to get to work, and some asshole is in our bathroom. I could kick you out for this.” I was turning red I was so angry.
“You aren’t listening to me, Janie. I met someone. Really special. Really. I think this is the one.” Mercy could not conceive of anything else in the world not being about her. She was the single most selfish person I had ever known. Yet, I loved her and wanted her as my housemate. At least, I used to.
“Mercy, I don’t care right now. You don’t have to go to work at 8:00 AM or be fired. Get whoever that special man is the fuck out of the bathroom so I can get dressed!” I was screaming at this point, and happened to glance over to the door.
Americo stood there in all his latin glory. Literally. I gaped, and he looked down, realizing that his interest in the scene before him meant that he had forgotten his towel.
“Jesus!” I whipped around before I could allow myself to stare. “Mercy!”
“Americo!” Mercy was as shocked as I was basically because she never trusted any of her men around me, especially naked ones. I waited a moment before I turned back to Mercy.
“Now I have 24 minutes. Shit. Get him outta here!” I turned and stomped to my room cursing loudly the whole way. In about 30 seconds, I heard Mercy’s bedroom door slam, and I sprinted into the bathroom, to jump in the shower, wash my hair, shave my legs, and jump out.
Twenty-eight minutes later, I arrived at Burns Sportswear. I saw my fearless boss, Brent, standing in the doorway with his wrist held up.
“Late, Bulick. Late again.” I pushed past him, mumbling.
“Gonna fire me? Send me home?” I kept going without looking up, heading to my desk and the day’s production schedule.
“I got a business to maintain here, Bulick. Get your shit together.” He turned and walked out the front door, running down other proletariats who were in his kingdom. I had worked for the man two years, and I learned at the end of the first that the best way to handle his contrariness and abuse was to give it back to him. Part of the reason I returned to school was because of the depressing way he treated his employees, me being the one with seniority. Only two years. Shit. I was convinced that whatever I did in life, it had to beat working for the biggest asshole in town. Yet, I was glad to have a job. I knew that if I looked hard enough, I could find another. But employers of good employees understand that looking for a job isn’t a great deal of fun. And changing jobs generally isn’t either, unless you are at a higher level of employment. I supposed that going from one law firm to another wasn’t such a big deal, but when you were made less than 50 grand, in this case thirty-three, there wasn’t much difference from one lousy job to another. I was intent on changing that.
Mindy, our newest receptionist approached my desk, smacking her gum.
“Janie, can I take fifteen extra minutes for lunch today? I have a nail appointment but my nail tech couldn’t get me in until 12:15. Sometimes she takes longer,” she stopped and glanced at her two inch nails. Mindy was apparently still under the illusion that I really was the office manager and could grant her reprieve for extra minutes off. She had no idea who the boss really was. He had met her at the local Irish Pub, and of course, was now trying to get into her pants. This was a standard with Brent. He loved to hire his newest girlfriend, until he tired of her or she didn’t grant him the boss status he believed he deserved. Or until he had his way with her, which confused me, because it seemed he only hired young women with whom he had already slept. His wife, who worked as our accountant, didn’t seem to mind or to notice. As long as they worked hard, told her she was exceptionally beautiful, and didn’t file their nails at work, she was happy with the situation. It was a very strange situation, and the marital fights, which didn’t seem to revolve around any newest girlfriend, could be horrendous. I tried to do my job, and stay out of the drama.
“Mindy, I don’t have the authority to give you extra time. You have to ask Brent or Sharon,” I peered back down at my work schedule. She didn’t move. I sighed. Not a good way to start the day.
“Ummm, I thought you were the Office Manager.” She stood there staring at me.
“Ask Brent.” I wasn’t willing to get into this battle this early, but she wasn’t budging. “Mindy, how long have you worked here now?” I couldn’t keep up with the swinging door of employees who came and went. I was good at what I did, and didn’t want the bother of the newest lay.
“Six weeks. I think.”
“you haven’t been here long enough to ask for extra time off for lunch. Besides, who will answer the phone?” I still refused to look up.
“You could do it for me.” She was whining now. Her finger nails must be in terrible condition.
“No.” I took my schedule and walked out into production. What a fucking morning.
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“Janie.” The loudspeaker here at Burns left a lot to be desired. Talk about Charlie Brown’s teacher voice. Sounded more like “meanie”. In fact, it might have been.
“Janie, you have a call on line 1.” Cute. We only had one line. That was a tired old joke, but tired old jokes don’t go away. They are the number one recycled item in the world.
I walked to the wall, punched “line 1”, and answered.
“This is Janie. How can I help you.” More a statement than a question. How indeed. Leave me the fuck alone so I can get my work done.
“This is your ma. I need you to come here right now.” The usual drama that tried to invade my life on a daily basis. With ma, it could be a moment-by-moment basis. Except I had declared a “drama-free” zone with her. No rescuing, not offering advice. Too bad she hadn’t quite gotten the hang of it yet.
“Ma, I’m working. You know that. Some of us have to keep a job,” I glanced in the direction of the front office, knowing that Brent the Bad would show up and scream at me if he heard I was taking a personal call. Sheesh.
“Your aunt’s suffering a stroke.”
“Ma, this isn’t funny. I gotta go,” I turned to hang up.
“Janie, she’s blue. Been blue for 30 minutes.” Mama’s voice was shaking with fear, which wasn’t anything I ever heard regularly. I understood instantly that she was serious.
“I’ll be there in five.” I hung up, ran to the front, and grabbed my coat. I yelled at Mindy that I was outta there, and almost ran headlong into Brent.
“What are you doing?” he asked as I sidestepped him.
“My aunt Lily is having a stroke. Call an ambulance, Mindy! 112 Mt Forest Circle. Do it NOW!” I ran toward my beat up green Honda with only 178,000 miles on it.
“Janie, we have a lot to do today!” Brent was running behind me. “What the hell?” I flung the door of my car open, and looked up at Brent on the other side.
“Brent, this is my aunt. My family. I know that doesn’t mean anything to you. But I’m going to take care of her. There isn’t anybody else to do it. Fire me if you have to, but I’m going to the hospital.” I angrily slammed into the car, missed the ignition three times, and finally got the engine blaring. He stepped away from the car, and I could see his mouth was still angrily moving, the words lost in the noise of the engine. I shook my head, shot him the bird, and careened out of the parking lot. When I glanced in the mirror, I could see that he was gesturing wildly. I shook my head, and kept going, wondering for a split second what I would do about paying my bills. Fuck him and the horse he rode in on. I was tired of my life revolving around how many ink colors could go on a tshirt, but I knew that even having a job right now was a big issue. How could I possibly dump this one when so few in my family had a paycheck of any kind? I shook my head again, and pressed a little more firmly on the gas pedal.
When I got to the hospital, small by most standards, I could hear mama wailing in the distance. The ER, so I sprinted there. She was standing in the lobby with her arms around a handsome nurse, crying like all get out. I patted her, and tried to pull her off of the poor guy. Trust mama to use any situation to touch a man.
“Mama, what the hell is going on?” I pulled her hard. She was hanging on like she was drowning in Lake Hartwell. “Mama, let this young man go, and talk to me.” I spoke more firmly this time, and pulled her arms off of the hard-bodied nurse. At least she could pick ’em.
Mama was snuffling and rubbing her eyes, and I found myself surprised that she seemed genuinely upset. “She turned blue, Janie. Right before my eyes. Just as blue as your shirt. And keeled over. Just keeled over. I smacked her hard, but that didn’t seem to do nothin’, and she lay on the floor. I thought she was playin’ with me but…lawd, lawd, lawd,” she wailed again.
“Mama! What is it? Did the doctor tell you what is wrong?” I knew that the wailing drama would have to run its course before I could get anything out of her. I turned to the well muscled young man in the scrubs.
“Do you know?”
“I just walked in the door to come to work.” He shrugged like the idiot he obviously was. The muscled stopped at his neckline.
“Do you think you could find out?” The tension in my voice was rising, and I knew I would shortly be cussing this idiot out, which I also knew was not the best way to get people on your side in a hospital situation.
“Sure, sure.” He rushed off in the direction of the ER rooms, disappearing behind a curtain.
“What was she doing, Mama?” I pulled her in the direction of the chairs alongside the window, and managed to get her to sit.
“I think she was eating peanuts. Just sitting there, shelling them, and popping them in her mouth. We was talking about our plans for the day, and I asked her somethin’. She didn’t answer, and when I finally turned around, I saw that she was blue. She was blue, Janie! She was blue.”
“I get that part, mama.” This was the point at which I knew that I wouldn’t get any further with her, so I sat back with my arm around her, waiting for someone to come talk to us. We waited two hours.
Finally, a nurse came out looking for us. By that time, there was the usual assortment of kids with runny noses, old people with patches on various parts of their bodies, and someone trying to hack up a lung. Even though our hospital was small, the general customer base was similar to what I had seen at larger ER’s. At least in the morning, you didn’t have to run into too many gunshot victims. Or suicides. People didn’t tend to want to kill others or themselves early in the day.
The nurse walked over towards us. “You the Bulicks?” I nodded. “come this way, please.” We looked at each other, and stood to follow the nurse. Mama began to snuffle again, and I squeezed her. Somehow I didn’t mind being the caretaker in this situation. I knew I had only so many hours before Mama would be her irritable conniving self.
Trailing behind miss pink outfit nurse, we traipsed through the waiting sick people. No one looked in our direction, everyone had their own misery to contend with. That seems to be the way of life mostly. Just focus on your own ills, and don’t take any notice of what others are feeling.
I had a moment of clarity in which I could see what was going to happen next. This had happened to me before, actually since I was about six, if someone I knew was about to die, I could see a foggy cloud around my vision. I shook my head, this being a “gift” I had never wanted, but that didn’t seem to be the way of gifts. They didn’t do what you “wanted”. They just stuck around and forced your attention on them, whether or not you desired to have them. This time, the vision sent chills up and down my spine, and I stopped right where I was. Mama bumped into me, and then bumped into me again.
“Janie?” At least she knew who I was. I stood stock still, cause I knew where this was going and I didn’t want to say. Perhaps it was because I was in a hospital and there were deaths all around me. I knew that wasn’t it, but I kept hoping.
Miss Pink Scrubs turned to look at me, and then a helpless feeling flew across her face. Instnatly, I could tell this was not part of the job for which she had signed up, and telling people bad news was not among the daily chores she wanted. I looked at her and shook my head slightly. She motioned for us to come, but I couldn’t manage to do it. I began to back up. The last time I had seen a dead body was when a young black boy had been hit by a car in front of our house while riding his bike at dusk. It had taken years for that body to leave my dreams, and I wasn’t about to let Aunt Lily replace his ghost.
Miss Pink Scrubs called out to Dr. Hope to come out of the room. I thought how odd it was that his name was hope, and here I stood with none. I began to laugh uncontrollably, until Mama actually slapped my face. Normally, I simply would allow that kind of behavior from her, but I felt the hysteria beginning to calm down. I blinked and looked at her, wondering just where I had gone, and then remembering the vision, and I reached to hold her. Tears sprouted from my eyes, and she looked at me wonderingly. My thoughts finally dawned on her, and she began to shake her head no vehemently.
“No, Janie, no…” she pushed away from me to keep my truth from becoming hers. “No, you’re wrong. Ain’t she wrong, doc? Ain’t she wrong? This is just Janie’s drama, just her over-reaction. She cain’t see nothin’. Right, Doc?” The doctor looked down at the floor, and then back at me. He was not the one to tell my mama that her only sister was dead, died choking on peanuts. He had not ability to understand the careful balance that existed between my mama and her sister, and that life had always meant that they stood on the opposite side of that see-saw, keeping each other in sight and protecting one another from the realities of a world that did not care of they stayed balanced. My mama was falling off of that see-saw right now, and there was no one but me to step on the other side. I just couldn’t do it. To maintain that balance with her was to buy into her ideology of the world, to decide that I couldn’t do better, be more, grow further than her. Lily and Mama had a careful agreement that neither would be more successful than the other. Even Lily’s sheer size had been a testament to Mama’s thinness – her one rebellion against her older sister’s choices. I knew in that instant that mama was on her own. And I knew what that meant. Life had been difficult enough with Lily for her to lean on. Now what was she gonna do?
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